Avoiding Peer Pressure

Once you have decided that you do not want to have sex until after you are married and you have learned the responses that others may say to pressure you to change your mind, it is important to recognize that a close support system is key to helping you avoid peer pressure. Choosing the right friends that care about your aspirations and keep an open mind to your choices is an essential aspect that will help you commit to your vow.

Four tips to help you avoid pressure:

• Maintain your self-esteem
• Remember your strengths and what you believe in
• Consider all of your options
• Surround yourself with a strong support group

Many feel as if they cannot talk to their parents about sex because it creates an uncomfortable situation.  Talking is a very effective way of learning all there is to know about sexual relationships so that you can form your opinion on what choice is right for you.

Having a close group of friends around you is not only a great way to spend your time, but it also helps with tough situations because friends care about your overall happiness. A true friend is there for you whether you want to watch a movie, go shopping or need someone to lean on when you are having a tough time. They can be a helpful source to confide in with subjects like this one and also to discuss all of the dreams, doubts or fears that you may have in your life.